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8 Ways to Help Get Your Ex Back

Breakups and divorces can be very painful. Here are eight things you can do starting today to get your ex back and restore the relationship you once had.

Take Things Slow. Don’t jump right back into the relationship. This is never a good idea. If you rush back into a relationship, you’ll probably end up in the same place you are now. Your ex will be more comfortable knowing there is no pressure to rush back into anything.

Rekindle Your Friendship. It’s important that you reestablish your friendship first before jumping back into the relationship. Starting with friendship will help rebuild trust which is crucial in terms of moving forward.

Acknowledging Fault. A relationship is two-sided so there’s no need to point out your ex's faults, especially if you’re trying to work on getting back with them.

However, it is important that you to take some responsibility and acknowledge your own faults. If there were areas where you fell short in the relationship, acknowledge them to your ex and let them know that you are willing to work on those areas.

Bring Up The Good Times. Don’t be afraid to bring up the great memories you two had together. Reminding your ex of the good times will put them in a positive frame of mind and have them possibly wanting you all over again. Let them know that you enjoyed those times and are willing to do whatever it takes to recapture that magic.

Work On Yourself and Re-Build Your Confidence. There's a reason your ex fell in love with you in the first place. It’s time to remind them why they did. Work on yourself. That may mean taking some time to hit the gym, changing up your wardrobe a bit or even getting a different style haircut. You're not actually doing this for them but for yourself. When you do end up getting back together, your confidence will be so high, your ex should find it hard to resist you.

Let Go Of Others In The Fire. It’s important that your ex knows that you’re committed to being with them and only them, especially if there were issues of infidelity in the relationship. If you were talking to someone else while you were in a relationship with your ex, this is the time to let them go. If you make this commitment, be sure that you’re willing to follow through with it. If you don’t really mean it, there may not be a second chance.

Give Them Space! If you’ve just broken up with your ex, don’t call or text them 24/7 or beg for their forgiveness. While instinct tells us to do this, it actually will drive them away. Not only will this annoy your ex, it’s unattractive, makes you look weak and puts you in a place of desperation with little control. Instead of calling and texting them, back off a bit. By giving them enough time and space to not feel pressured, it could have them wondering and wanting you more. Be sure however not to totally fall off the map.

Make Yourself Available. If you weren’t always available in the past and/or dating other people, your ex may feel like you didn’t value them enough to make time for them. If you want to get back with them, it's important they know you want to make time for them out of desire, not necessity. No need to let go of friends or go overboard, just be sure they know they are top priority.

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